You’re exploring dating and dating scenes and you stumble across this term alt girl. It’s a phrase that gets tossed around a lot but what does it mean? What is the alternative dating scene? Is it right for you? If you Google “alt girl,” you come up with a bunch of tatted and pierced girls with funky hair and little to no clothing. No one’s complaining about those search results but it’s not much of an answer, is it? Unless the Internet is trying to claim that an alt girl is defined by her appearance alone, which, let’s be real here, the Internet isn’t quite sentient enough to do that yet. It would be nice if there were some sort of manual to what it means to be legitimately alternative. Unfortunately, there is no such documentation in existence. This isn’t just because no one wants to sit down and really define something so fluid and broad; it’s because there’s not really one solid definition.
If you were to ask some, they would describe just what the Google search pulled up; a hot girl with tattoos, piercings, funky hair, and an air of confidence. If you try to find an alt girl on a real BDSM dating site, you might find variations like a girl who’s into video games, a girl who wears black lipstick, or a girl who just doesn’t give a fuck about your opinion of her. That is, honestly, the best way to describe an alternative woman: a woman who doesn’t give a fuck what you think. Alternative women are too busy pleasing themselves to give a damn if they’re pleasing you.
When a girl doesn’t give a fuck, it doesn’t mean she’s not taking care of herself or that she’s completely clueless as to how exactly what you think of her. It means that she doesn’t care. An alternative girl is alternative because she doesn’t fit into the pre-constructed box that society has made for her. An alternative girl is any girl that dresses, acts, or is interested in things that good girls shouldn’t be. This is what makes it so hard to put into words what exactly an alternative girl is. Of course, a girl isn’t alternative just because she likes “weird things” but it’s a good working definition for our purposes.
To narrow down this definition a little bit for our legit alternative manual, we can look at a few different categories. We will start with appearance. This one is pretty simple but it can cover a wide variety and it’s a big part of what makes them so damn attractive. A big indicator that the girl you’re dating may be alternative is ink on any part of her body. Tattoos, for a long time, were only for sailors, soldiers, and prisoners. Because of this, they’re thought to be manly and unfeminine. A lot of people still consider them to be a good way to ruin a woman’s form. Even people who like tattoos think that women should only have certain kinds in certain places. Alt girls are not concerned with what some fuddy duddy thinks of their appearance. They decorate their bodies to please themselves and express something meaningful (even if that means that they like tattoos). Who doesn’t want a girl that is so confident in herself that she will were her soul on her sleeves?
There is a similar attitude to piercing. There are those who don’t understand why a woman would put holes in her body in “unnatural places.” This is none of their business. Those of us who are into alternative women like the fact that they are unique, we like our women to be one of a kind and beautiful. We like tattoos and piercings and purple hair. Funky hair is another one of those unladylike appearance decisions. This one goes a little deeper because not only is it “ruining” them in regards to how attractive they are, but it implies that they’re into unladylike things like rock and roll or drugs. That last sentence is dripping with sarcasm on purpose because the whole thing is ridiculous. We love alt women because they ignore the nay-sayers and stay true to themselves.
Talk About Unladylike…
Alternative women are also what some might call free spirits. They are more likely to be willing to experiment in the bedroom. They are also more likely to be into things that other people are too afraid to try. If you mention whips and chains to a more traditional person, they might be taken aback, but mention it to an alt girl and she perks right up. There are real BDSM dating sites that are specifically made to help alt women and men find each other. (Alt can also refer to sexual preferences that lay outside of the “norm.” This applies to dominant personalities, submissive, bondage, polygamous relationships, even furries. Not to beat a dead horse, but alternative just means something that makes other people uncomfortable.) If you’re looking for a woman who would be willing to try a little crop work or someone who enjoys nipple clamps, alt girls are where you should be looking. There’s no manual for this, but alternative living can be exciting if you’re ready to give it a chance.
If We’re Being Honest
Not only are alt women more likely to try out the more obscure passions, they also tend to be more passionate about things in general. You can chalk this up to them being truthful about what stimulates them. They don’t have to pretend to be interested in nail polish unless they really fucking like nail polish. If an alt woman is into the environment, she is into the environment. There’s not really an in between. When you allow yourself to be into things that really interest you, as opposed to liking what you’re supposed to, you find yourself easily engulfed and swallowed by it. This is why the alt lifestyle is gaining such steam. Once you’ve exposed yourself to living life in a way that is really honest and truthful to whom you are; it’s hard to imagine living any other way.
So, in essence, alt women are women who passionately don’t give a fuck. They love what they love and they do so in an uninhibited, unapologetic fashion. They might express this by having dreads or blue hair. You might see them with piercings and tattoos. You might also never know that they’re alt if their alternative passions are a little more hidden. A woman who is good in the bed might actually be a lady in the streets. This doesn’t make her less of a genuine person, just a different kind of alt. Either way, we love alt women for being who they are. We love them for being passionate and adventurous and(let’s be honest) really hot. It’s really hot when a woman knows what she wants. It’s really hot when a woman asks for what she wants. It’s really hot when she tells you with confidence that she knows what she wants and she wants you. Who would turn that down? Get out there, find a real BDSM dating site and meet the girl you’re looking for. Choose from the top ranking sites, read the Dating Site Reviews – Find The Best BDSM Sites Available. Choose from the best sites and meet your dream alt girl.